". . . the church teaches most significantly through nurture in a worshiping, witnessing community of faith, and they clearly explained that explicit instruction in the church schools was only a small part of Christian education."I did not attend a Sunday School. Our small rural congregation did not have one. What they had instead was a one room parochial school. My teacher through most of my years of elementary education was Elmer Hinze. He was the sole teacher of about two dozen children of all grades. All children of the congregation were expected to attend. Tuition was free for members. That school was very influential in the development of my faith. We studied the Bible stories and integrated the Christian point of view into every subject.
However, as important as that education model was (and still is in the Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod), church schools are but "a small part of Christian education." My daily life with my parents, my grandparents, my extended family, our weekly worship life, the conversations we shared, the family and church picnics, even the conversation between the farmers of the area—all these things were the major part of the nurturing of my faith.
But things have changed. Rural community life is unknown for the vast majority of us. We Americans are an urban culture. And that urban culture does not provide a community that can be counted on to pass on the values and worldview that we Christians share. Every possible aberration and iteration of opposing views comes at us in our communities, our schools and workplaces and the never-ending harangue of the media. Music, movies, TV and books foster an approval of drugs, sex, revenge, hate, lust, greed and self-centered pleasure. The values of the worldly community around us oppose our own. They are like the storms Jesus predicted would come.
"Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock." - Mat 7:24-27 ESVSo many families living in this world are without roots to protect them from these spiritual storms. Cut off from an extended family of parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins they have no one to support and encourage them through mutual conversations and prayers based upon God's Word. They do not have what I had as a child. My grandson, for example, is just starting a new job with a major oil company. He fully anticipates that in a couple years he will be sent overseas to any number of possible assignments, from Japan to Scotland, from Africa to Australia. He and his wife are excited about the adventure, but I want them to realize that in those places they will be cut off from their roots, except for an occasional video or phone call home. And their little son will have to relate to a culture totally foreign to his experience.
And what about a community of faith? Chances are that they will have great difficulty finding any Christian community in, say, Japan where we Christians make up but a few percentage points of the population. How will they nourish faith in their son? Surely it cannot be done without community.
This is a question all parents must ask, even if they never work overseas. Faith is always expressed, transformed and made meaningful by people living, loving and sharing together in a community of faith. We Christians must be a part of such a community of faith if we expect our children to grow up sharing that faith. Community remains part of the answer to the question I am raising. This is a clearly taught in the Bible.
For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. - Rom 12:4-21 ESVWe face a situation similar to that of first century Christians. We live in a post-Christian era, a world in which the voices of many faiths and world views constantly vie for attention. In this world we parents who are concerned about the faith of our children must give great attention to developing our communal Christian lives. By no means can we depend upon an hour of Sunday School and a few bedtime prayers to nurture strong faith in our kids.
More about this next time.
